With users worldwide, Grindr has become a vital part of the community and has flourished as a unique place for queer people to connect. But while Grindr is intended as a safe space, its features also have the potential to put users at risk.
Safety is not merely the responsibility of users, and Grindr is continuously seeking to develop and improve its security features—not only to protect users, but also to provide them with critical safety information needed to ensure a safe experience.
These safety tips provide some quick advice on using Grindr safely and responsibly. We recommend reading them as you’re setting up your account, and again after connecting with someone you may be interested in meeting.
Low-risk areas
- Trust your instincts, and leave if you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, even though it may feel awkward or embarrassing.
- It’s a good idea to create an exit plan in advance, so you know what you plan to do if you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
- When you’re chatting to another person on the app, think critically about what you send. You don’t have to share anything you’re not comfortable with, especially if someone is being very pushy.
- Before meeting, consider having a video call to check their vibes, get to know each other, and make sure they are who they say they are.
- Consider meeting in a familiar, public place such as a café, restaurant, or library. A place that is queer-friendly is ideal.
- Tell a trusted friend where you’re going and set up check-in times with each other. Take a profile screenshot of the person you’re meeting and share with a trusted friend.
- Keep your phone charged and in your possession/ in reach at all times, in case you have to call for a ride or for help.
- Make sure you’re in charge of your own transportation and have a plan to get home
- If you are traveling to a place where being LGBTQ is illegal, consult our holistic security guide.
High-risk areas
- Trust your instincts, and leave if you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, even though it may feel awkward or embarrassing.
- It’s a good idea to create an exit plan in advance, so you know what you plan to do if you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
- When you’re chatting to another person on the app, think critically about what you send. You don’t have to share anything you’re not comfortable with, especially if someone is being very pushy. This is especially the case if you live in or are visiting a country where being LGBTQ is illegal.
- Meet in a public place such as a café, restaurant, or library. A place that is queer-friendly is ideal.
- Tell a trusted friend where you’re going and set up check-in times with each other. Share profile information of the person you’re meeting with a trusted friend.
- Make sure your phone and the contents on it are safe. Use the Discreet App Icon for your Grindr app and make sure you use the PIN feature where you’re out.
- Keep your phone charged and in your possession/ within reach at all times. Think about photos or videos on your phone, or other apps and websites that might be used against you if someone gains access to your phone.
- Make sure you’re in charge of your own transportation and have a plan to get home.
- Have a contingency plan for if you are arrested. For example, give your friends the details of your social media and dating app accounts. That way, if you’re arrested they can communicate with the right NGOs and close down the accounts so the police can’t extract too much information.
Consult our Holistic Security Guide for more information.